Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Our 8th wedding anniversary

Mike and I at our family pre-wedding party two nights before the big day.
I wanted to let all of our readers and supporters of our blog know that today, April 30th, Mike and I are celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary. We were so fortunate to be married in a ceremony we called "a loving act of civil disobedience" with 160 friends and family joining us. I get tears in my eyes just thinking about it.

I am completely in love with Mike and every day am grateful that he is my husband and that we are a family.

A cool thing about this anniversary is that we will be celebrating with hundreds of gay and lesbian couples tonight as we count down the hours until civil unions become legal at midnight. We will be eating and dancing at One Colorado's party, then at midnight watch as couples go to city hall to get their civil union.

We have decided to wait to become civil unioned for a day when some of our family can join us.

Civil unions are not marriages. Yet for us in Colorado, they will be the first legal recognition of same-sex couples. The next step is to overturn the state constitutional ban against same-sex marriage and then, after that battle, fight for full marriage equality.

Meanwhile, Mike and I act as if we were legally married. We work at our marriage and remind each other how important he is. We both try to be a voice for the voiceless and we try to show love to all others.

One of the many reasons we love our blog and the community we have built with it is that we have gotten to meet so many amazing people, including other gay, vegan couples. We are SO grateful for all the kindness, love and support.

One day marriage equality will be a reality. Until that day, please stick with us to fight the good fight. It will be wonderful when we can finish this fight and put even more energy to the education around animal cruelty and animal rights and strengthen our voices for those killed, tortured and living in fear just to become dinner.

Thanks y'all!

With a huge amount of love,

Dan and Mike

Our honeymoon; back-country trip at Yellowstone National Park.


  1. Happy Anniversary! <3

    Civil Unions go into effect tomorrow (May 1) in Colorado Springs. I'm ordained so I already contacted a few event sites and told them I'll perform ceremonies for any of their gay or lesbian clients! :)

  2. So exciting!!! What a celebration it will be. Your wedding looks incredible -- and delicious! :)


  3. Happy Anniversary!

  4. Happy anniversary!! You two seem to be such a great couple. It's always so wonderful to see loving relationships that last. <3

  5. Love your blog and this post made my heart melt. Congratulations and Happy Anniversary!

    Cheers to our state.

    -Paul Collanton