Mike and I were at Veg Fest Colorado the weekend of July 7th. We had a blast. Our vegan company, Cruelty-Free World was a sponsor of the fest and we loved selling cookbooks, purses, belts, wallets as well as promoting our blog.
I just had to share a conversation Mike had with two young children at our booth:
Child: What kind of gay does that mean?
Mike: Well that is my husband over there. I am married to another man.
Child: Oh, so the love gay.
Mike: Yes. (of course I was a bit overwhelmed by his statement. What a great way to explain gay).
His sister: I thought you said you were from Colorado, isn't that illegal?
Mike: Yes but in our eyes we are married.
Both kids: We think it is just stupid you can't get married. They need to change that."
What a great way to explain gay indeed! The first child had seen our cards and sign promoting The Gay Vegans. I still get a little teary eyed when I talk or write about this. It was just so cool. And their mother just smiled as the conversation was going on.
From Mike: What awesome kids. Taught me something. I love talking with children as they are so open and truthful.
The kids we in 4th or 5th grade.
Thank you for reading!
Gay and vegan in the burbs (of Los Angeles). I blog about veganism, equality, compassion, activism, politics, spirituality and the awesome life experiences of The Gay Vegans. The "s" includes my husband, Mike! I believe that we all have more in common than not and that we all have the power to be the voice of the voiceless. I want this blog to be a tool for me to build bridges amongst communities and those with differing opinions.
LOVE it! "the love gay" Sigh. :)
ReplyDeleteI love when these conversations come up in my class. Each fall, we do a family unit called "That's a Family" that focuses on every possible family permutation. When we talk about gay families it usually goes like this:
Child A to me: Wait. Did you just say your brother has a HUSBAND?
Child B,C,D,E,F, and G, all turning around to face Child A: Yea. They're gay. Gay people get married to each other all time time. (insert eye rolls)
Child A sits there looking quizzical, processing it all.
The tipping point was definitely reached around here a while back, and the stragglers are just catching up. :)
Le sigh - I am in heaven over this post. Children are wonderful :)
ReplyDeleteVery cool! How nice to hear that at least some kids are being raised as open-minded.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful story. This gives me hope for the future.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet story! The love gay. I love that. :) Thanks for the smile.
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