Gay and vegan in the burbs (of Los Angeles). I blog about veganism, equality, compassion, activism, politics, spirituality and the awesome life experiences of The Gay Vegans. The "s" includes my husband, Mike! I believe that we all have more in common than not and that we all have the power to be the voice of the voiceless. I want this blog to be a tool for me to build bridges amongst communities and those with differing opinions.
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
In memory of 37 sailors
It's been 25 years.
May 17th will be the 25th anniversary of the USS Stark tragedy.
I was 21 years old. Enjoying an evening out in Manama, Bahrain. I came back to my ship and it was gone. The USS Conyngham had left to go support the Stark. We were instructed to board the USS LaSalle not really knowing what was happening.
Two Exocet missiles had been fired by an Iraqi air force jet. One exploded. 37 men died. 21 were wounded.
Arriving early the next morning I was shocked to see the Stark listing with a huge amount of smoke coming out of her. Once we got back to the Conyngham many of us immediately headed to the Stark. People were exhausted. Body bags were filled. Fires still needed to be fought. The smell shocked me. Everyone just jumped in. The fires continued for almost 24 hours from the moment of impact.
My one friend on the Stark survived. Three of his co-workers did not.
I never know when a memory is going to hit me from that day. My thoughts and memories of that day run deep and all over the place, as they do for anyone who was there.
I've always remembered. My shipmates rocked it that day. I saw bravery and courage and selflessness.
This blog post is in memory of the 37 people who were killed aboard the USS Stark on May 17, 1987.
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Well ... shit. There you go making me cry at work. I will raise a glass to them tonight.
ReplyDeleteI wrote about the anniversary on my blog, too. I write about our generation -- born 1961 to 1981. This is so sad to me. 21 of the 37 killed were members of my generation and nobody ever even talks about this. 25 years is a long time, but not that long. Thanks for posting the names and ages. http://www.jenx67.com/2012/05/25th-anniversary-of-uss-stark-attack.html
ReplyDeletethank you for bloging about this. how terribly sad. i hate that i didn't even know about it but i was busy graduating high school. i have read each name and will be praying for each sailors' friends and families on this sad anniversary..
ReplyDeleteThank you shipmate! By the time the XO ordered me off the Stark (after collapsing on the flight deck, some time the following day)I don't remember anything from the support of the sailors coming to our aid. I keep a blog to honor my lost brothers http://ussstarkffg31.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeleteVisiting with one of my best friends, Liz Morgan - mentioned the WAZ because she went to meeting in Mayport - blogs I;ve followed over the years! I think I met you briefly in Florida, in August, 1987. Recognized a recent pic with furry friend (as of 1987). Steve Erwin was her brother, my boyfriend. I never let May 17th go by without reminding friends and family of this awful day. Happily married now, but I always salute the memory of those gone, and still living. Cheers, a friend.
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